I don’t know what else to say…I’m all about giving people a voice and negotiating to consensus but the bottom line is sometimes they just aren’t right and at some point we need to be comfortable taking a stand for what we know IS right.
I believe that one of the issue people who have suffered abuse face is a weird mixture of self doubt and the need for affirmation. We have been led to a place where we have come to doubt all we believe, yet we desperately need the approval of others, often times those that have abused us. The result is that we don’t take a stand for what we believe, even when we know it is correct.
You see, sometimes they are wrong and others times they are FUCKING wrong.